Deeply personal stories of Nigerian women written in the first person.
Oluwadamilola Akintewe - Salzburg Global Internship
I was never really worried about my qualifications. The only thing that I thought might be a disadvantage was that I didn’t have a master’s degree (the application form in the year that I applied stated that master’s degree students would be prioritized and I only had my bachelor’s in law). For other criteria, I had them locked in. In the past, I’ve done similar work in relation to the role I applied for (communications). I shot my shot at the opportunity, hoping my background was enough. It was.
Kaitochukwu Chukwudi - University of Cambridge Mastercard Foundation Scholarship
However, God had other plans. I randomly saw the Mastercard Foundation Cambridge Scholarship Application, and while checking its eligibility requirements, I decided to be a little delusional and apply. One of the major reasons I applied was that my current program aligned perfectly with my interests and was going to give me the necessary exposure. Also, I met the eligibility requirements, so why not?
Favour Obijole - Bank of America Summer Internship
I wanted to be at the heart of facilitating deals on a global scale. In terms of the steps I took, I networked a lot and reached out to investment banking analysts and associates at different global banks, as well as previous summer analysts to understand the industry and how to position myself.
Jewel Owolana - Linklaters Africa Clerkship
It was not my first rejection, I had my fair share of painful rejections in 2020, so I moved on with life and resumed at the Nigerian law school. A year later, during my law school externship, the application cycle opened again. This time, I made up my mind to be more intentional about the application. B.O, (someone I respect so much and who runs this amazing podcast and online career development community) had posted something on Instagram that said “How badly do you want it? Then, go for it”.
That really stuck with me. I had some thoughts about why I didn’t get in the first time and decided that if I really wanted this opportunity, I would have to put in the work. I figured out that I did not fully understand the Watson Glaser test (WGT), which was one of the assessments in the application process. Bar exams were months away and I needed to study for that too, so, I came up with a plan — I would dedicate 2-3 hours for two weeks to heavily prep for this and no more. I searched the internet for every free resource I could find on the WGT. I watched a lot of videos on YouTube. I also paid for a practice website and practiced till my scores were very high. I dare say I practiced it more than my law school multiple-choice questions at that time. Again, I had exams ahead of me but I felt the opportunity was worth the shot.
Toyosi Onikosi - The Standard Bank Chairman’s Scholarship at Oxford University
Like I said, I did not plan on applying to Oxford because I had convinced myself that it was too hard to get in – harder than the American school I applied to. Also, Oxford only took 45 students into the program and it did not seem likely that I would be among the 45. So it took a lot of time before I made up my mind to apply and then, there were difficulties along the way which made it even harder.
One was the fact that they needed my official transcripts from my university which I knew would take a while, and the letter of confirmation from my university that I had studied in English. The stress involved in getting these documents also discouraged me from wanting to apply. More so, I did not know anybody who had gotten a scholarship for that course. I knew a copy couple of people who had taken the course in previous years and all of them self-funded. I had been informed that people who take the MLF do not typically get scholarships, so there was also a question of where the money for my tuition would come from. This was another discouraging factor.
Canvas of Dreams - Cynthia Ihanden
It is so easy for people to posture and say come back home. Why is this not an option for people? Simply put, there's nothing to go back to. I used to be a part of the bandwagon till it indeed became me. Now I speak from a place of understanding. When you hear people just upped and left, a lot has gone into it. Selling properties, leaving a well-paying job, leaving family behind, or sometimes no family. Going back home is the last resort. We move in search of a better life - security, a working system when citizens are valued, good roads, electricity, and peace of mind.
Zainab Damola Aderinale - The United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) Internship
Personally, I have always been a resilient student. Taking professional courses and joining extra-curricular activities alongside major school activities has really helped me to develop myself over the years. Due to fewer opportunities available to Nigerian and African students, it is important that as an undergraduate, you don’t limit yourself to classroom activities. Spread your wings and explore!
Finally, there is nothing like school or education is a scam. It will all make sense in the end. The ability to not see education or school as just a place to visit but an experience that could shape your life and career can never be underestimated.
Monsurah Alli-Oluwafuyi - The Aurora Tech Award
The first thing I would recommend is to start early. This may include learning the award or program, understanding the requirements, vision and being able to identify how your startup can be positioned accordingly. Secondly is, be open-minded and take the application process as a learning moment for you and your organisation. Lastly, there is a lot to gain, in addition to or more than just winning the cash prizes.
Does It Get Any Better? - Stephanie Nguvan Akpentomun
After four months of moving from different medical facilities and getting the wrong diagnosis, I finally met a neurologist who understood the problem. Unfortunately, it was a little too late to save my legs. Two years down, I’m stuck for life with a chronic disease that has no cure. A disease that wakes up and decides if it’s time for me to lose a new part of my body.
Precious Ozegbe - The World Bank Treasury Internship
Following the initial application submission, candidates are subjected to a one-hour assessment evaluating their proficiency in Economics, Finance, and Global Markets, and their grasp of the World Bank's mission. Subsequently, an interview with the team ensues, which, based on my experience, proved to be one of the most relaxed interviews I have encountered. The key to success in this phase is to effectively convey genuine interest and relevant skills. Additionally, it is highly advisable for every applicant to meticulously peruse the descriptions of the 16 teams within the Treasury and identify their preferred teams. For your convenience, you can access both the CV and Cover Letter templates on the World Bank Treasury website.
How Far Being Intentional Goes - Iguehi Aimienwauu
I used to be called extra. Looking back, it’s funny how all the things I was looked down upon for being and doing have helped shape me into such an amazing person.
Entrepreneurship is difficult but be courageous. Keep going. It’s important to never give up. Take it one day at a time and trust yourself.
I tell people this a lot: No matter how hard things get and no matter how weak you might feel going through the process slowly, one day, you will be amazed at how much you have grown and learnt.
Asking yourself certain questions will also help you to grow. Why do I do what I do? What drives me? What footprints do I want to leave along the way?
Nabila Okino - The Fletcher School Leadership Program for Financial Inclusion
I was inspired to apply for The Fletcher Leadership Program for Financial Inclusion (FLPFI) because of the intersection of my current role as a policy analyst for a financial regulator and my background working on social and development issues. The FLPFI presented an exciting opportunity to bridge my experiences in financial policy and development and work towards creating policies that can improve people’s lives.
Preparing for the opportunity was quite interesting. For me, a lot more mental preparation was needed. Many of the program's alumni and applicants have extensive backgrounds in the financial sector, which initially triggered feelings of imposter syndrome. My first thought was that I wasn’t going to get it because I am relatively new in the sector. I had to overcome these doubts and muster the confidence to submit my application.
Sisterly Love: Victoria’s Friendship Story
After one month of working, she called me aside one night and said she had a confession to make. That night solidified our friendship for good. She confessed she went to work because she saw that I was struggling financially and needed help. She had planned to give me the salary so I could add to whatever I had to pay my fees. She wanted us to graduate together. Tears couldn't describe how I felt. The Bible talks about a friend that sticks closer than a brother. Nife is that one friend.
On Loss, Grief, and Recovery - Hairam Iwnas
You were living until the thing you dreaded the most happened, and you stopped living. You simply floated through the day without noticing anything or anyone. You became a distant shadow, and people who knew you said you had changed. You didn’t care, you were exhausted. You had little patience with anyone and had to stop yourself from screaming at people sometimes.
Sisterly Love: Kintan and Oluwatoyin
We started our friendship like we were getting into a relationship. It was the intentionality in getting to know each other for me. We've evolved a lot. We've moved from holding some views to not holding them anymore. We've grown from struggling to talk, to always wanting to give each other life updates.
A Debut Author with A Story: Ifeoma Igwe
Even though I am investing time and money to release a quality book, part of me still succumbs to the voices within that say I’m not a real author because I couldn’t get a traditional book deal all those years I tried to.
Apart from the rejections I faced from agents with my book, I also experienced a difficult start to my career. This was shocking because my parents and teachers always emphasized the importance of good grades in the real world. Yet even after graduating with a first-class, I really struggled to find my career footing, which is something my novel’s protagonist also faces.
Sisterly Love: Sybil and Epere
We both realized that to make our friendship work, we had to respect each other's boundaries and beliefs. We questioned our choices, gave advice when necessary, encouraged one another, but ultimately let the other person make their own decisions, whether it was "boy dramas," job hunting, or starting a business.
It was difficult at first because we had nothing superficial in common. She was also carefree about life while I liked to do things meticulously. But I suppose our differences are what made us work well because we balanced each other out.
Sikemi Bakare - On The Path of Boldness
I was determined to find a backup plan. I couldn't return to my parents to say, "Oh, I don't want to do Law, but I also don't know what I want to do" because that would be unacceptable. I needed something solid. I focused on practising and becoming a better graphic designer at university. In 2020, I took a graphic design course that helped me expand my knowledge on a larger scale. I met my current mentor through this course. I had decided that after school, I would work as a graphic designer, and I did just that.
On The Ripple Effect of Making A Change - Sisterly HQ Alums
Since Sisterly HQ kicked off in 2021, tens of amazing women have worked with us as volunteers. To the work of Sisterly HQ, they have brought commitment, energy, and passion for impactful storytelling, women’s empowerment, equal opportunities, and the success of Nigerian women.
Many of these phenomenal Sisterly HQ alumni have gone on to start their own initiatives, passion projects and purpose-driven communities. These incredible women have created non-profits, recorded podcasts, written blogs, built communities, and so much more that have impacted the lives of hundreds of Nigerians and people across the world. And, this is that story.
Olande Adekunle - On Transitioning From Philosophy To Tech Consulting
There was a bit of pushback during negotiations. My age did not match the demands I made. Why should a 26-year-old ask for an assistant manager position (that’s what a senior 2 is)? With the help of my mentor, I aced the interviews and got the position I wanted. I conceded the pay, but overall I have no regrets. My transition process was largely smooth, and I had great team support to make integration fast and easy.